Nudism / Naturism and swingers | antaunaturelle's Blog

Hi All,

I have a little rant today!

I just want to know, why, oh, why, do swingers feel the need to advertise themselves on nudist sites? There are soooo many swingers sites that I don't see why they have to do it?

What's the problem you may ask?

Well, I have a beach I go to that isn't suitable for kids and has also been threatened with closure due to sexual activity!

Don't get me wrong a lot of the problems have been from single guys or groups of gay men, but there have also been problems with groups of swingers having sex on the beach, especially later in the early evening.

Nudism has a very poor press and nudists are often seen as weird sex perverts and sex pests. I believe that much if not all of this stems from inappropriate sexual behaviour from non-nudists, or people that enjoy nudism (because it is an amazing way to be) but can't seem to control their sexual urges for the appropriate time and place!

I went on to a site call 'True Nudists' thinking it will be a relaxed and easy going place for people that aren't out for sex, specifically because I was sick of all the sexualisation of nudism. How wrong can you be? I saw couples advertising for meet ups, one guy with a erection in his photo and many other obviously sexual profiles.

For the new nudist, especially a youngster or single female looking for friends or info, this sort of thing would probably scare them off for life! It's quite a scarey thing to get into on your own anyway, without your first impression being that it's all about sex!

The nudist fraternity is very thin on the ground as it is and young nudists are few and far between. I believe that such sexualisation of nudism has a detrimental effect on the perception of nudity and nudism in general.

Single men are seen with real suspicion and it is very hard to get into a nudist club as a single male (I know, I tried!). Again, the lack of self control of the few ruin it for the many!

I would like nudism to become a mainstream activity and be normal on all beaches! However, this will never happen while some selfish individuals taint the intention of the many.

antaunaturelle.